英语翻译

英语翻译
英语翻译

英语翻译
A good heart to lean on
When snow or ice was on the ground, it was impossible for him to walk, even with help. At such times my sisters or I would pull him through the streets of Brooklyn, NY, on a child's sleigh to the subway entrance. Once there, he would cling to the handrail until he reached the lower steps that the warmer tunnel air kept ice-free. In Manhattan the subway station was the basement of his office building, and he would not have to go outside again until we met him in Brooklyn' on his way home.
When I think of it now, I marvel at how much courage it must have taken for a grown man to subject himself to such indignity and stress. And at how he did it -- without bitterness or complaint .
He never talked about himself as an object of pity, nor did he show any envy of the more fortunate or able. What he looked for in others was a "good heart", and if he found one, the owner was good enough for him.
Now that I am older, I believe that is a proper standard by which to judge people, even though I still don' t know precisely what a "good heart" is. But I know the times I don't have one myself.
Unable to engage in many activities, my father still tried to participate in some way. When a local sandlot baseball team found itself |without a manager, he kept it going. He was a knowledgeable baseball fan and often took me to Ebbets Field to see the Brooklyn Dodgers play. He liked to go to dances and parties, where he could have a good time just sitting and watching.
On one memorable occasion a fight broke out at a beach party, with everyone punching and shoving. He wasn't content to sit and watch, but he couldn't stand unaided on the soft sand. In frustration he began to shout, "I' ll fight anyone who will tit down with me!"
Nobody did. But the next day people kidded him by saying it was the first time any fighter was urged to take a dive even before the bout began.
I now know he participated in some things vicariously through me, his only son. When I played ball (poorly), he "played" too. When I joined the Navy he "joined" too. And when I came home on leave, he saw to it that " I visited his office. Introducing me, he was really saying, "This is my son, but it is also me, and I could have done this, too, if things had been different." Those words were never said aloud.
He has been gone many years now, but I think of him often. I wonder if he sensed my reluctance to be seen with him during our walks. If he did, I am sorry I never told him how sorry I was, how unworthy I was, how I regretted it. I think of him when I complain about trifles, when I am envious of another's good fortune, when I don't have a "good heart".
At such times I put my hand on his arm to regain my balance, and say, "You set the pace, I will try to adjust to you."
Annotation
1. cripple v. 使残疾,损害
2. inwardly adv. 在内心
3. squirm v. 蠕动
4. let on 泄密
5. coordinate v. （使）配合
6. adjust to 调整,使适合于
7. nasty adj. 肮脏的,不愉快的
8. sleigh n. 雪橇
9. cling to 抓紧
10. handrail n. （楼梯）扶手
11. basement n. 地下室
12. marvel v. 诧异
13. subject…to 使…经历
14. indignity n. 轻蔑,侮辱
15. punch v. （用拳头）猛砸
16. shove v. 推,乱推
17. content adj. 满意的
18. frustration n. 失望
19. take a dive 认输
20. bout n. 拳击比赛
21. vicariously adv. 可替代地
22. see to it that 保证
23. envious adj. 妒忌的
another
Happiness
After I gave a talk on the subject of happiness,a woman in the audience stood up and said, "I wish my husband had come．" "Much as I loved him," she explained, "it wasn't easy being married to someone so unhappy．" This woman enabled me to put into words what I had been searching for -- altruistic, as well as the personal, reasons for taking happiness seriously．I told her that each of us owes it to our spouse, our children,our friends to be as happy as we can．
I was not a particularly happy child,and like most teenagers, I took pleasure in my anguish．One day, however, it occurred to me that I was taking the easy way out． Anyone could be unhappy； it took no courage and effort． True achievement lay in struggling to be happy． The notion that we have to work at happiness comes as news to many people． We assume it's a feeling that comes as a result of good things that just happen to us, things over which we have little or no control． But the opposite is true： happiness is largely under our control． It is a battle to be fought and not a feeling to be awaited． To achieve a happy life,it's necessary to overcome some stumbling blocks, three of which are：
Comparison with Others Most of us compare ourselves with anyone we think is happier -- a relative, an acquaintance or, often someone we barely know．I once met a young man who struck me as particularly successful and happy． He spoke of his love for his beautiful wife and their three daughters, and of his joy at being a radio talk-show host in a city he loved． I remember thinking that he was one of those lucky few for whom everything goes effortlessly right． Then we started talking about the Internet． He blessed its existence, he told me, because he could look up information on multiple sclerosis -- the terrible disease afflicting his wife． I felt like a fool for assuming nothing unhappy existed in his life．
Images of Perfection Almost all of us have images of how life should be． The problem, of course, is that only rarely do people's jobs, spouses and children live up to these imagined ideals． Here's a personal example： no one in my family had ever divorced．I assumed that marriage was for life．So when my wife and I divorced after five years of marriage and three years after the birth of our son, my world collapsed．I was a failure in my own eyes． I later remarried and confided to my wife that I couldn't shake the feeling that my family life had failed． She asked me what was wrong with our family now(which included her daughter from a previous marriage and my son)． I had to admit that, aside from the pain of being with my son only half the time(my ex-wife and I shared custody), our family life was wonderful． " Then why don' t you celebrate it?" she asked． That' s what I decided to do． But first I had to get rid of a "perfect" family．
"Missing Tile" Syndrome One effective way of destroying happiness is to look at something and focus on even the smallest flaw． It's like looking at the tiled ceiling and concentrating on the space where one tile is missing． As a bald man told me,"whenever I enter a room, all I see is hair． " Once you've determined what your missing tile is,explore whether acquiring it will really make you happy． Then do one of the three things: get it, replace it with a different tile, or forget about it and focus on the tiles in your life that are not missing．
We all know people who have had a relatively easy life yet are essentially unhappy． And we know people who have suffered a great deal but generally remain happy． The first secret is gratitude．All happy people are grateful． Ungrateful people cannot be happy． We tend to think that being unhappy leads people to complain, but it's truer to say that complaining leads to people becoming unhappy．
The second secret is realizing that happiness is a byproduct of something else． The most obvious sources are those pursuits that give our lives purpose -- anything from studying insects to playing baseball． The more passions we have, the more happiness we are likely to experience． Finally, the belief that something permanent transcends us and that our existence has some larger meaning can help us be happier． We need a spiritual faith, or a philosophy of life． Whatever your philosophy, it should include this truism： if you choose to find the positive in virtually every situation, you will be blessed, and if you choose to find the awful, you will be cursed． As with happiness itself, this is largely your decision to make．